The tension that myself and most people live in is that we spend most of our lives trying to be who we are not, instead of being who God created us to be.
If I spend all the days of my life in disillusion of who I am, then is my life not a failure? Trying to live up to peoples expectations is a dangerous path I've been on as being that person means not being who God created me to be. If God created me to be "X", then there is no tension in being who God created me to be.
or not to be
that is the question...